LOS ANGELES, MAR 18 - - - For those who do not know, fellatio is oral sex performed on a man. Fellatio, commonly referred in society as a blow job is a great way to give pleasure whether it is for foreplay, afterplay, or the main event. Like all other sex skills, giving a blow job must be learned and perfected through practice .

One thing that is recommended for giving a good blow job is communication. Talk to your lover and ask him how he likes it. Often times, a woman might think one thing while a man has a completely different perspective on what pleasures him the most. Therefore, communication is highly recommended. Honestly, finding out what he likes will go a long long way to performing mind-blowing oral sex.

Keep in mind that giving a blow job is for him, not for you. Acting with reservation and outwardly giving signs about not wanting to give a blow job or how much of a chore it is will take away from his sexual experience. Try acting enthusiastic and something that you look forward to and chances are it will be over faster and it will be your turn to receive. If you are really against fellatio, explain to your partner why you don't and see if there is another fantasy that you can help fulfill. And for those who are absolutely against giving oral sex, you may want to consider purchasing him a oral sex simulator such as the Deep Throat Stroker or the vibrating oral seduction.

Should you decide that you're ready to pleasure your man, here are a few tips to giving the perfect blow job. The first thing to make sure is to get into a comfortable position. Change positions as much as you need to and find your comfort zone. If you're kneeling on the floor, be sure to use a pillow under your knees so that you don't make this an unpleasant experience for yourself. Remember, both the man receiving and the person performing fellatio need to be comfortable.

Now for the beginning of your mind blowing fellatio. All too often, oral sex starts out with your partner instantly sucking on your penis as if she was drinkie a smoothie. You might not want to do this right away. To achieve a much more powerful orgasm and to reward your man with the perfect blow job, it is better to start with some teasing and licking. Unless you're in a rush and just want to give your lover a 30 second blow job, fellatio should start off with some well placed teasing. Start by kissing and licking around his penis, on the inside of his thighs, then move on to his testicles. He will absolutely enjoy this. After you're done teasing around his genital area, move slowly up his shaft towards the head of the penis. Once there use your tongue to tickle him around the shaft and at this point, your lover should be extremely excited and ready to rock and roll.

Once your lover is ready to come, you have to decide whether you want to allow him to come in your mouth. A lot of men find it erotic and sexy for their lovers to swallow their semen. If you're not comfortable with this, simply spit out the semen into the sink (or into a tissue) or pull out right before he ejaculates and let him come on tissue or a towel (or whatever you choose).

The most important thing to remember is to enjoy yourself and make sure that your lover enjoys himself too. Don't think of giving a blow job as a task or chore. Think of it as a reward to give your lover and who knows, with the art of giving a perfect blow job, you just might be able to get your way in all other things of your relationship.

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