Dildos are a fun way to add spice and romance to your sex life. If you're a newbie to buying dildos, it can seem like a fairly daunting task to choose the right dildo for you. There are traditional ones, realistic dildos, strap ons, double ended, and on and on. There are huge dildos and small ones, there are glass dildos and colorful ones. So which one is best for you? Read on and hopefully this dildo shopping guide will help you make the right decision.

At SecretPlayTime.com, there are hundreds of dildos to choose from. For the beginner user or for first timers, experts recommend easing yourself into the world of sex toys by browsing the traditional dildos section. Popular sellers in this category include the Blush Pleasure Cock.

What are dildos for and which one should I buy?

People use dildos for a variety of reasons. Although most women can orgasm through clitoral stimulation, many enjoy the sensual feeling of something hard and the act of thrusting inside during masturbation. For sexual adventures between women, a dildo can be used with a strap on harness to allow a woman to thrust the dildo into her partner while keeping her hands free.

Purchasing a dildo involves a number of factors including such things as length, thickness, texture, and hardness. The two most common materials for a dildo are silicone and latex. Silicone is generally more expensive. However. most frequent dildo users say that its ability to match body temperature and its general texture make it a superior material. As the saying goes, you get what you pay for and silicone and UR dildos are the most realistic type of dildos in the market.

Another things to keep in mind when you want to buy a dildo is that you should always consider starting out small. Buy dildos you are sure you can handle rather than ones you hope you can. There is a general tendency to go for the biggest dildo you can get your hands on, and as a result, people often wind up with dildos that are much larger than they need, want, or can handle. In all honesty, an eight inch dildo is plenty big. For the truly adventurous, huge dildos in the 10-15" range exist as do ultra realistic dildos that look and feel just like the real thing.

What is considered the perfect size and shaped dildo?

The answer to this question varies depending on each individual user. With that in mind, here is a quick breakdown of the different types of dildos available in the market.

Classic Dildos

Traditional, non-vibrating dildos are fun self pleasuring toys for those who need a quick fix. Traditional dildos can be used on any of the erogenous zones - clitoral, vaginal, or anal. Customers also use dildos for oral sex practice.

Double Ended Dildos

These dual pleasure dildos are meant to be used simulataneosly on two women. Double the fun, double the pleasure. The best selling dildo in this category is the Raging Hard On.

Realistic Dildos

For those looking to replicate the real thing, realistic dildos may be just the thing for you. Realistic dildos with the UR designation such as the Jeff Stryker Realistic Cock provides the most realistic experience.

Huge Dildos

Not for the faint of heart, huge dildos should only be used by those who can truly handle the size. Large dildos tend to measure 10-15 inches.